The Two Sides Of The Coin!

With some hopes and mixed feelings, there have always been circumstances when we need to see the other side of the coin. Rather, there appear two sides of each situation. Now at this phase, one’s thinking of remaining firm or being stuck to a point might sometimes not work well and might not even favour. Say for eg., if you conclude on someone on a point without knowing his situation sounds to be partial. Rather concluding on knowing the phase seems practical. All of us somewhere somehow might have definitely come across such situation. So any solution to this?
Getting disturbed on a topsy-turvy situation I guess has never been fruitful! Rather getting into the cause is! Any particular moment might again be disturbing! Don’t mind for emphasizing on the word ”Might” because it is not on a sure basis and varies from person to person! A person might come yelling on unnecessary things, irrespective of under what circumstance he/she is! May be he is under financial pressure or facing some personal discrepancy. It has to be in his understanding that behaving on such note is totally unfavourable.And that presenting in such a manner might create an unfavorable position in future. Though such behavior is temporary, but might make an alternate and dejected face for ages to the world. Hence, on a safer side, not reacting to situations in an unfavorable way proves to be the best buddy!
Another such important bullet to know and keep in hand is to speak softly or friendly. One has to manage or learn how to manage to throw words. It is not at all necessary that the person in front will be in a joyous mood to accept your undesired behavior. What does it take to speak in a soft tone or to be polite? Nothing!! Is there an art to follow this thumb rule? Aren't we playing negative on our part? Is Karma going to revert in a positive way? No! It has never! Past is the witness! Learning from our past has been playing a keynote. May it be our childhood or our ancestors. Our childhood learning really plays a very important role in our life. It’s very important to observe good things and ignore the wrong! Even we have to teach our children the same. They follow what we follow and what we do. Our deeds mould their future! I wish each child to be supported by a good mind! Let’s be fare on what we think and how we behave! Let Karma revert with goodwill. Carry a smile with a polite tone! Even though you are on high level of frustration, being arrogant is definitely not going to be helpful. Apart, it will leave you in a bad disguise.
So! The two sides of the coin! Being disturbed and acting in a threshold way or to remain calm and act in a polite way! In my opinion, the other side of remaining calm seems to be fruitful.